One of them, when he saw he was healed, came back, praising God in a loud voice. Luke 17:15
I remember teaching the boys gratitude from the time they were little. Anytime they were given a drink, handed a toy, received a gift, or got help, they had to respond with a “thank you”. “Please” and “thank you” were looked upon as the magic words. They were the words that would open doors for my little guys when they were young.
As they got older, we had a game we used to play to further show appreciation. I would take brown paper bags and put everyday items in them. These were to represent gifts given to them, and it would help them practice their responses. Let me tell you, these presents could get pretty bizarre and they prepared them for certain occasions! The point was, it didn’t matter what the actual gift was, if it was given with a kind and thoughtful heart, it was special to us.
The character trait for today is Gratefulness-letting others know by my words and actions how they have benefited my life (definition from characterfirst.com).
I wanted to show the veterinarian’s office how much I appreciated their kindness as I was going through figuring out our dog’s food allergies, so for Christmas I took them in some chocolates. I didn’t think much of it, but I received the kindest card from all of them. It really does mean something to others when they know you appreciate them. So, remember to be grateful. Better yet, when someone goes above and beyond, let their boss know!
I talked about doors opening for the little guys when they were young, but it’s amazing how doors are still being open in the present, and how they’ll be in the future by those simple words that mean so much. Manners will take a young man far in life. I believe that having gratitude is what will make all of us move forward and not be stagnant.
Today, show someone you’re grateful for something they did for you. Send out a note, make a phone call, or even take a little gift of appreciation to them. You never know how you’ll make an impact on someone’s life with that gesture.
Also, please remember to thank God often because we’re always receiving his grace. Yet, too often we are like the many lepers who run off accepting the blessings received without turning back to say, “I appreciate it.” Only one remembered to be grateful. Be that one today!
I’ve challenged my boys to start writing down three things they’re grateful for every day. Also, on their bathroom mirror it says, “I’m thankful for…” This reminds them each time they’re washing their hands to name three things their thankful for. It’ll start a heart of gratitude! You just might want to try it.
